A Mom's Ingenuity at the Tennis Courts

Today the geeklets (my older kids Chaos and Evil, specifically) had tennis lessons over at Wheeling Jesuit University.  I enforce tennis lessons because a) I'm apparently a mean and evil Mom-dictator who paid attention when the kids promised they'd at least attempt three lessons each before quitting and b) these are free through the local recreation department and I'm all about taking advantage of the word "free".
It was hot. To that effect, I'd brought three bottles of water that had been in the freezer over night.  I also brought some curtains and hung them against the side of the tennis court to create shade.  There is NO shade to be found there.  I had a ton of the other Moms stare at me as I sat, knitting and eating rice balls in the comfort of the shade, waiting for the hours of tennis to end.  I cheerfully invited anyone who passed by to sit and then offered them sunscreen when they refused.
Between lessons the kids ate their way through a tray of rice balls (onigiri) that had been decorated to look like baby chicks.  I don't know whether it was the cute food or the audacity I had to hang curtains on the tennis court, but I was definitely stared at today.

And, you know what?  It doesn't bother me in the least.  I'm not one of those Moms that really cares what other Moms think of me.

You see, I'm a pragmatic person.  What do I mean by that?  Well, let's use an example that really happened to me.  In college, a friend's desk lamp wouldn't turn off.  This was the kind that was built in to the wall so it couldn't just be unplugged.  He tried the switch many times in vain before calling the dorm supervisor.  The dorm supervisor tried several times and finally put in a call to the facility manager.  In the meantime, everyone was panicking because it was almost time for curfew and he couldn't get his light off.  They started making arrangements to change his room for the night.  I wander over and finally suggest with a bit of derision that they could always unscrew the light bulb.  You'd never believe that NONE of them had even thought of that as a method for turning off the light until the switch could be repaired.  Like I said, I'm a pragmatic person.

My parenting techniques are pretty much what I'd consider "pragmatic" as well.  They get results with the fewest possible bribes, tantrums, or other side stepping techniques.  (That's not to say that there's not a time or place for bribes or tantrums.)

So, that being said, I needed shade at the tennis courts.  So, very pragmatically, I hung curtains and made shade.  And I got stared at like a weirdo.

How on Earth did they ever guess I was a weirdo?  I promise, I kept that bit of info on the down-low.